Monday, January 5, 2009

2008 in retrospect

I compiled these pictures a week ago when it was still 2008 and had hopes of creating a photo collage. But, as of yet, Picasa will not load on my computer and you are forced to endure a full size photo journey through our family's year.

Reflection is a good thing. As I was going through pictures I could hardly believe all the progress we made as a family and as individuals. I grew and birthed an entire person in the year 2008. Noah started out the year as a nursing babe and ended it as a talking, throwing, laughing toddler. Luke shed the final remnants of babyhood and became an official boy. Nat became a doctor (of philosophy). Noah became old enough to be Luke's "best buddy"-- watching that relationship blossom and thrive is perhaps my greatest privilege as a mother. We cleared some major family hurdles and became a "new and improved" family, as Laurel put it.

Here you have it-- 2008 in review:

January

We are still in Madison, with a year of record breaking snowfall. I really enjoyed the winter's intensity but could have done without the duration. Luke and Noah are both old enough to get out and enjoy the snow.

February
The snow continued and we read a lot of Little House on the Prairie, snuggled under the down comforter. Luke decided, on one very snowy day, that we needed to go out and rescue dad at the bus stop. I loaded Noah into the back pack and watched, in awe, as my little three year old climbed through snow drifts up past his waist.

March
More snow (did I mention the duration of last winter?). March 15 finds my little sister, Ashley in labor, about to deliver her first baby. I am desperate to be with her and make Emily give me a play by play over the phone. When Emily refuses to talk anymore I go into the bathroom with a pregnancy test to distract myself. It's positive. Nat and I laugh out loud at the idea of three children. We go maple sugaring that day as the reality of another pregnancy sets in.


Easter egg hunting in the snow-- don't you love the Midwest?

April
Nat turned 29 without a birthday cake because I was too sick to make it. He was a good sport and blew out candles in his pastries.

Luke turned four and had to blow out birthday candles placed in dino nuggets because, again, you can't puke and make a birthday cake at the same time.

May
We began the month on Florida's gulf coast. I am starting to feel better. The boys have the time of their lives in the sand, playing with cousins, and enjoying Aunts, Uncles, Grandma and Grandpa Fredin. Courtney and Dave get engaged.

Nat walks in the Spring graduation. Doesn't he look good in a cap and gown. This is the official start of single parenting for me as Nat buckles down to finish his dissertation and experiments.

June I find myself taking a last minute trip to Utah when I learn of my Aunt Allyson's unexpected, untimely death (I am still adjusting to the reality of her being gone). All of my cousins are together for the first time in at least ten years. We commemorate with a nose picking picture that Allyson would have loved. I also find out at her memorial service that one of my second cousins is in my ward in Madison-- it's a gift to find family so close.

We take our first trip to Maryland to find a place to live. Luke is relieved to find that the ice cream in Maryland is as good as the ice cream in Wisconsin (again, this is ice cream we're talking about, not frozen custard-- that's a whole 'nother story).
We list and sell the house in four days-- a miracle. It's almost as miraculous that we were ever able to keep it clean while it was on the market. The above picture depicts the time that I stopped at home in the fifteen minutes between showings to go to the bathroom and Noah managed to find a sharpie, draw all over his legs, shorts, and the hardwood floors (thank you, Magic Eraser).

July
This picture might have been the only time that we saw Nat in the month of July. We celebrated the fourth the only way we know how, wearing Cubs shirts.

We enjoy the last days of living close to all our Madison friends (whose company I still miss daily). Nat lives at the lab and his office.

August

Nat defends his thesis, Physical Characterization of Erodible Polyelectrolite Thin Films Fabricated From Plasmid DNA and Synthetic Polyamines (I did have to go over to the shelf and open the 300 page book to remember the title). We pack up and drive to Maryland to start a new life.

September
Luke starts a new preschool. I turn thirty. We enjoy the beginning of fall in Maryland on our daily walks through the park.

October
More fall fun, watching the leaves change, a memorable visit from Grandma Barb and Grandpa Doug, and getting to know the area better.
Noah turns two with a fall themed celebration.

An elephant and ewok/monkey make their way around the neighborhood, gathering goodies.

November
We patiently await the birth of our newest member, his birth is quick and wonderful and we settle into a quiet, at home time of snuggles and getting to know little I-guy.

December

We enjoy visits from both Grandmas, a darling school presentation, lots of goodies, Santa's visit and Grandma Barb and Grandpa Doug's Christmas visit.

Here's hoping 2009 holds such adventures and wonders!

4 comments:

Just one tall girl named Laurel said...

woot! shout out! danka! i was only quoting you, though. cute retrospective post-- love the belly shot/self portrait. a phd, a move, a baby... big year for you guys! how can 2009 keep up? twins? ;)

Mandi said...

I am tearing up as I read this. What an incredible year for you and your family. I miss you guys.

Emily Bell said...

There was a lot of movement in that year. Litteral and symbolic. Isn't motherhood something else? I can't believe we can do all of this and remain sane.

Rachel and Nathan Fisher said...

What a great post and an amazing year. Thank you for sharing.